I Am Talkative
Better at being heard

Mei-Lin Chow

Writing & Languages, I Am Talkative

Mei-Lin is a translator and editor who works in four languages, and is patient about the difference between fluency and confidence.

Contact: editor@iamtalkative.com

27 articles by Chow

Languages

Reading in another language

Reading is the most efficient source of vocabulary available, and most learners do it in the way that works least well.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Writing that persuades

Argument on the page follows different rules from argument in conversation, and the main one is about what you concede.

Mei-Lin Chow··4 min read

Languages

Speaking a language badly on purpose

Waiting until you are ready to speak is the most common way to never speak, and there is a case for the opposite.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Languages

Choosing which language to learn

The wrong reason to pick a language is usefulness in the abstract, and the right one is more personal.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Writing to complain effectively

Complaints that work are calm, specific and state exactly what would resolve the matter.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Plain English

The case for plain language is practical rather than aesthetic, and the changes involved are a short list.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Conversation

Being interrupted

Interruption is unevenly distributed, and there are techniques for both ends of it.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Languages

Grammar and how much it matters

Learners over-study it and under-use it, and the research on how it is acquired suggests a different balance.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Editing someone else

Editing another person is a relationship as much as a craft, and most of the damage is done by editors improving prose that was fine.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Storytelling

Metaphor and when it helps

Metaphors do not decorate an explanation — they determine how the listener reasons about it, which is why the wrong one is expensive.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Conversation

Saying no

The difficulty is not the word but the sentence around it, and there is a form that works.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Languages

Translation and what gets lost

The idea that translation is word substitution survives contact with almost no actual translation.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Languages

Learning vocabulary that stays

Forgetting is the default and the methods that beat it are well established and mostly unused.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Writing under a deadline

The blank page problem is a planning failure rather than a creative one, and it has practical solutions.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Finding your written voice

Voice is not a decoration applied to writing — it is what remains when the borrowed habits are removed.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Conversation

Interviewing someone well

Whether for a job, a podcast or an article, the skill is the same and it is mostly about the questions you did not plan.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Writing for a general audience

The curse of knowledge makes expert writing incomprehensible, and the cure is specific rather than a matter of trying harder.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Emails that get answered

Most unanswered emails failed at the subject line or asked for nothing specific.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Languages

Learning a language as an adult

Adults have advantages children do not, and the methods that work are different from school language teaching.

Mei-Lin Chow··3 min read

Writing

Editing your own writing

The problem is that you know what you meant, which makes your own errors invisible.

Mei-Lin Chow··4 min read