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Public Speaking

Speaking After Someone Excellent

Following a strong speaker is difficult because the audience is still processing what they heard, and the fix is contrast rather than competition.

A microphone on a stand outdoors, ready for a public speaking or musical performance.
A microphone on a stand outdoors, ready for a public speaking or musical performance. · Photo via Pexels

Being scheduled after a speaker who has just delighted the room is a genuinely awkward position. It is also a manageable one once the cause is understood.

The audience is not neutral when you begin

Listeners who have just enjoyed something are still turning it over. The first minute of the next talk competes with the last minute of the previous one.

They are also calibrated. The previous speaker has set what a talk in this room sounds like, and anything similar will be measured directly against it.

Neither of those is about quality. A perfectly good talk lands badly in the first minutes simply because attention has not been released yet.

Contrast beats competition

Attempting the same thing better is the losing strategy, because the comparison is exactly what you want to avoid inviting.

Doing something different resets the frame. A quieter opening after an energetic talk, or a concrete example after an abstract one, gives the audience a new thing to attend to.

Speakers who pick this up learn to adjust in the wings, and a talk that can shift its register is more robust than one rehearsed to a single shape.

Acknowledging the previous talk works

A short, genuine reference to what has just been said closes the gap rather than ignoring it, and audiences find the refusal to acknowledge it strange.

The reference should be specific and brief. A sentence connecting their point to yours is useful; extended praise makes the comparison more prominent, not less.

It also buys a moment of transition during which listeners can finish the previous talk and begin yours.

The opening carries more load than usual

Normally an audience gives a new speaker some patience. Following something excellent shortens that patience considerably.

Beginning with your strongest concrete material rather than with preamble is the practical response. Introductions and thanks can wait until attention has been secured.

A question, a short scene or a surprising fact about the subject all do this. Housekeeping does not.

The room recovers faster than the speaker

Audiences move on within a few minutes, and by the middle of a talk the previous one has largely faded from the room.

The speaker rarely moves on so quickly, and the resulting anxiety often does more damage to the delivery than the comparison itself would have.

This is worth knowing in advance, because the discomfort peaks before the talk begins and drops as soon as the audience is engaged in the new material.

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Esme Carrington
Editor, I Am Talkative

Esme coached speakers for conferences and courtrooms for twelve years, and has never met a nervous speaker who was helped by being told to relax.

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